To Do or Not To Do
Many people say that "All things happen for a reason," but you may feel different especially when you are not as happy as you see others. Well to change that mind set of not being as joyful as other you should follow some tips for achieve what you long for.
People often tend to see things through the looking glass in a sense of the fantasizing about what others have instead of what they can gain by themselves. If you’re thinking about what other people have then you are not deciding on what you should have for your own happiness. In an article on Essence.com I found ways to gain the love life you truly want:
- Don't Look for Love
Instead of looking for what doesn't necessarily needs to be found, be patient and see what blows your way.
- Get Out There
Don't wait around for time to pass you by get out there, make it known that you’re alive, and willing to see what's to come your way.
- Embrace Disappointment
If you find someone that you think is right but find out that they are not what you thought don't hold on to what is not there.
- What You See If What You Get
You may dream of the "Perfect" man but truth is he is not real so you need to except that you cannot change the man to fit your image. Except it and Move on to better things.
- Something New
As you let go of something old, you often expect something new but if you’re picking the wrong type of people then how can you move on to someone new? Breaking bad habits are hard to kick unless you’re committed to moving forward so doesn’t look back on the bad fruit look at the garden full of fresh and new flavors.
Make it known that your out there , i like that ; because alot of girls after a break up just pretty much give up. They say love hurts because it does , but if you are willing to find someone to love you and for you to love them back , then in my opinion you have to be willing to get hurt as well , no matter how painful it is. Everyone always wants what they can not have , whether it be an idol man or women ; but there is no such thing as a perfect "mate" . I agree with the " if its not what you though it was , then let it go" because so many people hold on to what is NOT ment to be , and i think it hurts them in the long run if they do that ; because if you really think about it , that wrong relationship was to help you see what you are not looking for. I really like this post because it just helps the people that read this realize what they can do , to possibly help them find love.
ReplyDeletei agree with one example in this blog an that's what you see is what you get. People in relationships theses days always expect more from the other lover. That's how couples break up because they are never thankful for what they got. Couples these day's need to tighten up because one of them is going to get tired real quick an its going to be over in a blink of an eye. That's the only thing i agree with in this blog.
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