HAPPILY EVER AFTER OR NO ?

HAPPILY EVER AFTER OR NO ?

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During recent years relationships have been transforming from girls wanting to have the "fairy tale" ending to girls hoping the can survive because of the constant mood swings that guys have to offer.
Throughout this blog topic I have had to opportunity to research related topics that I could possibly compare and contrast but for my particular topic I couldn't really find the right information until I came across an article that happened about a year ago between two celebrity icons.
So I decided to compare the relationships between celebrities and people who are not in the spotlight.

Well let's begin with the celebrity point-of-view, for artist Chris Brown and Rihanna they have been in the world full of fame because of their different techniques towards music. Almost a year ago they had an altercation where Brown was arrested on charges of domestic violence, over time we saw the struggles of Brown within the media and while he went through his trials. But recently in an interview with people magazine sources say that while on air with Good Morning America when asked about his ex Rihanna his tempered flew through the roof. While trying to promote his new cd (F.A.M.E) his reaction to the conversation did not go so well. It seems as if no matter how perfect things start off as they could take an ugly turn in a split second and it really doesn’t matter if you guys are best friends it just shows that if you guys have no communication then something can happen at any time.

I have been in a relationship for almost two years and although I'm not in the spotlight like some others, it seems as if I am. My relationship has been rocky I have had everything from communication problems to dumb little arguments over the littlest things. I feel as if people always know what is going on with my relationship, so just because I'm not famous I show that no matter how much money you have everyone can find out what is going if you’re not so secretive or discrete about everything.

Your Opinion or Mine?

For this interview I decided to go with someone I know quite well. I had a gut feeling that she would be able to answer my questions as well as anyone... her name is Olivia Lapardo

I: How do you feel about relationships?

Olivia: “Relationships are only good when they’re worth it instead of playing games.”

I: what is your greatest fear when entering a relationship?

Olivia: “Rejection and the thought of getting hurt because it’s a 50/50 chance of ending up hurt.”

I: what do you like more being single or being in a relationship? Why?

Olivia: “Relationships because you know that person is there and you’re not alone.”

I: how have relationships been for you this year?

Olivia: “relationships have been difficult and complicated until someone walked into my life which was unexpected.”

I: do you prefer guys older or your age? Why?

Olivia: “older, because they are not necessarily mature but they have more responsibilities and not as much drama. They are just better!”

I: what plays a major role for you to pick a guy?

Olivia: Trust, because without trust you can’t give a guy your heart and hope he won’t break it. You’re taking a risk.”

I: if you could create the perfect man what would he have?

Olivia: “It’s not about making or finding the perfect person, it’s like finding someone who could be your best friend and who you’re most comfortable with.”

I: what has stopped you from being with someone?

Olivia: “I have been hurt in every relationship so I have a big guard up so it won’t happen again.”

I: have you ever met a guy that you really wanted to be with?

Olivia: “yes, I have and I’m taking a risk hoping he will not break my heart.”

I: what is your goal for gaining or having a relationship?

Olivia: “to find love because you can’t go in knowing you’re going to fall in love you either fall or you don’t.”

Thoughts and Feelings

Relationships are different for everyone throughout this world, there some that are arranged and others just happen. Not every relationship comes into play by accident you need to work towards it and sometimes it is not meant to be, some of my friends such as Olivia says “You need to feel a sense of comfort, happiness and trust within the person that is the main factor.” This is a major make-or-break relationship factor if you cannot gain any of these from  someone then that should be a sign of failure in the future. A friend Cody states “RELATIONSHIPS SUCK! And if you –put your whole heart into something then be prepared for consequences because you may or may not end up hurt and if you do not then that sheer sign of happiness and you lucky.” While for some relationships are not exactly a fun topic, it can also be a topic that has people jumping inside. Throughout my relationship I know I have done things to really make me question if I truly want to be with someone or just live a single life, but over the course of almost two years that I have been with my boyfriend I have come to find that being single causes a lot of heart ache because you always wanna feel like you have someone there to understand what your going through when times are bad. I have had my share of disappointments in relationships throughout my life, from talking to guys who I truly thought wanted to be with me and finding out that they were just trying to sleep with me- this hurt more than ever until I found my boyfriend and although we have had a rocky time we still manage to come out on top despite what anyone says. So to everyone that feels like their hope is slowly draining way never fear because if you have not found the one then believe that God does not what you to be unhappy he is just waiting until he feels like your ready for a new step in your life.

  1 Corinthians 13:4–8a
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.

What Do You Think ?

Have you ever felt as if your partner is being unfaithful? Many men and women often feel as if they are being lied to because of little signs they suddenly start to see, infidelity is one of the leading causes that make or break relationships throughout the nation. Some people can never actually find out if their spouses are not be 100% honest with them but here are some ways to find out what is going on the minute you turn your back to face the world.

1.    He/She super protective of his gadgets

If your man/women are acting shady about you touch or even going through their electronics then that be a perfect sign that is showing you they must have something to hide. If they don’t care about if you look through their things then you can cross that off your suspicious list.

2.    He steps up the grooming.

Throughout your relationship if he dresses a certain way and then all of a sudden changes his appearance then your safe bet is that something or someone is causing him to change this.

3.    He smells different.

This may go along with the way he is dressing once he starts smelling different either a better smell then something is going on because if they couldn’t smell that way for you then who’s to say someone didn’t cause them to act this way?

4.   Nothing fazes him anymore.

If you start to either have problems with your partner or feel self-conscious about something and try to confront them but they don’t care about what you’re saying then who knows what they are truly thinking about….

 http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/relationship-advice/how-to-tell-if-a-guy-is-cheating

"For nothing can seem foul to those that win."
William Shakespeare

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